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I often work with clients who tell me they’ve tried therapy before and didn’t find it helpful. There are many reasons this can happen, and therapist fit is a meaningful one (something I’ll explore in a separate post). But another reason comes up just as often and is talked about far less: Sometimes therapy doesn’t help because the person doesn’t have the capacity for it at that moment in time. This isn’t a failure of motivation or effort. It’s a mismatch between what’s being

You've checked all the boxes. The career is thriving, the relationships look stable from the outside, and your schedule is packed with accomplishments that would make anyone proud. Yet somehow, beneath the surface of this carefully constructed success, there's a persistent emptiness that no achievement seems to fill. If this resonates with you, you're not alone. What you're experiencing might be depression, even if it doesn't look like what you've been told depression should

You've checked all the boxes. The career is thriving, relationships appear solid, responsibilities are managed with precision. From the outside, everything looks perfectly aligned. Yet internally, there's a constant hum of worry, an exhausting drive to do more, be more, achieve more, and a nagging feeling that it's somehow never quite enough. If this resonates with you, you're not alone. High-functioning anxiety affects countless adults who appear successful and capable while

You've built a successful career. Your colleagues respect you. Your family depends on you. From the outside, your life looks enviable. Yet somewhere along the way, the drive that got you here started to feel like a weight you can't put down. You're exhausted in ways that sleep doesn't fix. The strategies that once propelled you forward now keep you running in place. You might even wonder: How did the things I'm good at become the things that are wearing me down? If this reson

Have you ever noticed your body tensing up in situations that don't seem objectively threatening? Maybe you find yourself suddenly exhausted after a perfectly ordinary workday, or you realize you've been holding your breath during a routine conversation. Perhaps you experience unexplained anxiety before social events, or you notice yourself withdrawing from relationships even when you genuinely want connection. These experiences might feel confusing or frustrating, especially

If every November/December leaves you feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself, you’re not alone. For many high-performing adults, the end of the year brings a perfect storm of emotional load: increased demands, disrupted routines, family stress, financial pressure, and the pressure to “finish strong.” What looks like burnout is often a nervous system stuck in survival mode and you’re not doing anything wrong. Your body is responding exactly as it was d

It's OK to not know where to start in finding a therapist. It can be common just to know that something feels off and you want some additional support. Sometimes, you just know something feels off . Maybe your anxiety has started stealing joy from your daily life. Maybe conflict has crept into your relationships, and you find yourself feeling like you’re on opposite sides instead of the same team. Or maybe you’ve started wondering whether some of the challenges you’ve faced

When we think of summer in Connecticut, we often imagine lazy beach days, family road trips, and long evenings under the stars. But for many parents, summer brings something else entirely: a rising tide of burnout. Between juggling work (still fully on), entertaining kids, planning vacations, coordinating camps, and trying to make every weekend "memorable," the season can start to feel more exhausting than enjoyable. If you've found yourself feeling short-tempered, overwhelm

Recognizing the ways we inhibit our joy allows us more choice in our daily actions and can spark personal transformation. Identifying the Barriers to Joy We all carry unique experiences and emotions that shape how we see and engage within the world. However, certain common barriers can obstruct our paths to fulfillment. These include negative thought patterns, limiting beliefs, unresolved emotions, or toxic relationships. The first step is recognizing and confronting these ba

In the fast-paced world we live in, finding balance and calm can sometimes feel like an elusive goal. However, with the right psychology strategies for emotional wellness, it is possible to cultivate a sense of peace and stability in our lives. At Align and Empower Therapy, I believe in providing a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore their emotions, develop coping skills, and enhance their overall well-being. One key aspect of emotional wellness is learning t

Embarking on a journey into therapy can be daunting, especially if it's your first time. The thought of sharing personal thoughts and feelings with someone you do not know can evoke a wave of apprehension. However, understanding the dynamics of the therapeutic relationship can greatly ease these worries. Understanding the Initial Hesitance Many people feel anxiety and fear when considering therapy for various reasons. The prospect of being vulnerable and the fear of judgment